This is it: this is your sign. You’re brand new, refreshed, empowered to change. Your calmer, softer times are coming. Your confidence, your happiness, your bliss, is arriving. Self acceptance is easier, and taking care of yourself is no longer a chore, but something you look forward to. You start to feel replenished - you’re *you* again - and the next chapter of your happier life begins now.
the worst part of depression is this complete lack of passion and motivation for anything. how am i supposed to get myself out of this hell hole if i don’t care about anything!!!!!!! not even myself
Losing weight will not increase my value.
Gaining weight will not decrease my value.
I am allowed to take up space.
my problem with a lot of body positivity / progressive beauty culture stuff is that it focuses on expanding the definition of beautiful rather than deconstructing the idea that physical beauty indicates worth. my difficulties with living in a body (and therefore with living, period) often come back to the fact that no matter how tightly i control my body, i am viewed as either object of disgust or object of desire (occasionally both simultaneously). i can never be neutral. i can never be subject. my difficulty with existing would not be assuaged, at least not for long, by winning the game of “beautiful.” winning is not the same as having agency or personhood. we don’t need to change the rules of the game. we need to stop playing.
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i actually owe my weight loss to a really handy detox drink!! it just melted the fat right off? the recipe is down below:
- 1oz self loathing (can be substituted for self destructive issues)
- 2 cups of a gross home life
- a pinch of childhood bullying
- 1 tablespoon of perfectionism issues
- a dash of food contamination fears
- 4 teaspoons of depression
mix it all in a lot of water to get rid of that bitter taste! i like to add a heaping spoonful of body dysmorphia to mine to really give it a kick but it’s totally optional. hope this helps!!!
oh my god
This is beautiful
Don’t force your “ana rules” on others.
If I don’t want to drink fucking diet soda, don’t shame me for that.
If I don’t like green tea, don’t shame me for that.
If I don’t like coffee, don’t shame me for that.
If I drink 4 liters of water a day instead of 5, don’t shame me for that.
If I eat 800kcals a day instead of 500, don’t shame me for that.
If my safe food are oreo cookies and peanut butter jelly sandwiches, who gives a shit?
It’s fine to share habits, advice, or constructive criticism, but it’s never fine to shame one another for their habits.
